The Best Advice I Can Give

Don't try to define yourself. Don't let others define you.

Don't try to fit any definition at all.

Don't look for a road map.

You never know what's going to happen in life, you can only try to live as you want to live, and prepare for the unexpected.

Much of the unhappiness we feel in life is the conflict between what we expect or feel we should be or do, what we want to be or do, and what we actually be or do...

Don't limit yourself, and don't create worry and stress and pain for yourself by setting expectations that may not be what you really want or need.

Just let yourself happen, and you'll figure out who and what you are, and what you want to do, as you go.

That said, don't just let life happen to you. Make sure you happen to life.